Advice For The Lovesick Or Brokenhearted
by Mark Ivar Myhre
Ever longed to be with another person who didn't want
anything to do with you?
Or longed to be with someone you just couldn't be with
for one reason or another? Maybe they moved. Maybe
they died. Maybe they're with someone else.
No matter the details it hurts like hell. It rips you apart.
And it's important to feel the hurt and the pain - fully and
completely - so you can heal yourself.
And while I'm no expert on relationships, I do have some
advice for the lovesick or brokenhearted person going
through such a painful separation... so that you can either
heal the current relationship or create another one that's
just as good or better.
If you feel you could die because you're not able to be
with the one you love, here's the first thing to keep in
mind:
You'll never find YOUR love by seeking it from an outside
source.
Even when you ARE with the one you love, and everything
feels wonderful, that 'rejoicing in the presence' you feel
is coming from INSIDE YOU.
That other person only brought to the surface what was
ALWAYS inside your own heart.
Nobody can make you feel love. You can only allow yourself
to feel some of the love that's already inside you.
I'll admit it can be easier to feel love when you're around
the one you love - but it's certainly not necessary.
Because when you're with the other person or thinking of the
other person you're ALLOWING yourself to feel YOUR love.
And when you're not with the other person, it's all too easy
to make up a story about it. And not let yourself feel your
own love.
Very rarely does anyone actually feel the love of another.
It CAN happen, but it takes a lot of empathy; a lot of
strength and personal power. You really have to be in touch
with yourself and your own feelings. You have to open your
own heart.
Of course, you can share love and feel each others love. But
it happens much less than you might imagine. And you must first
be in touch with your own love before you are even *capable*
of feeling the love of another.
I know it doesn't seem that way. It seems like the other
person is the source of the love you feel.
But I'm here to tell you that never happens.
They are the OBJECT of your love - not the source of it.
Big difference between an object and a source.
ALL emotions are sourced inside of you. They bubble
up from a wellspring deep within.
When you're immersed in love - or as you think back to a time
when you were - it seems hard to believe that much love could
be inside you.
It *must* come from the other person!
"I don't have that depth of love."
I say you do. I say no matter how powerful the love you
felt when you were with the other person - no matter how
overwhelming it seemed - you've got much, much more of your
OWN love still waiting inside you.
When you're pining for another - and it HURTS - then it's
time to change your focus. They were never the source
of your love anyway.
Feelings of neediness create more neediness.
As you realize your love comes from inside - and it's
truly endless - you'll be much more likely to recapture
the heart of the other person. (Or find a replacement!)
The more you turn inward for love, the more likely you'll
be to end up sharing that love you find inside yourself
with another person.
Just as the more needy you become, the more likely you'll be
alone.
It starts (but certainly doesn't end!) with acknowledging
YOUR love comes from within YOU.
If you're feeling lovesick or brokenhearted, the first step
is to change your focus FROM the other person and ONTO
the endless wellspring of love that lies within you.
I explain a lot more about love and loving yourself in the
e-book "How To Create Your Own Reality" which you can
read about here -
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Love is an energy you can use to sculpt and mold your life
to make it the way you want.
And you can generate love by following a specific set of
steps. I explain it all starting on page 87 of the e-book.
That love can then be used to generate and sustain whatever
your want in your reality. Certainly you can use it to find
or rekindle a loving relationship with another person.
And you'll also learn many other powerful ways to create
that loving relationship. Find out more here -
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all the best,
Mark
Mark Ivar Myhre
The Emotional Healing Wizard
PS - you can actually *use love* to create the life you want.
Just go to - http://XXXX.jointhefun.hop.clickbank.net